Tuesday, September 7, 2010

IT'S ALREADY IN YOU

In my Army Children’s School days, a few of my classmates and I went to visit a sick friend somewhere in Barnawa, Kaduna. I won’t mention the name of the building because it is still standing and many of you who have been to that state or now live in it will know this particular structure and I don’t want to be arrested because of this story, lol. Anyway, we got there after a long walk but the classmate leading us forgot the specific house. Disappointed, we sat down on the 3rd floor and waited for our confused friend to recollect after we had rained insults on him. Even if he didn’t remember, we had to rest before taking the long walk back to school in the scorching sun of Kaduna. It was amidst that short rest that a few of my classmates dragged us into trouble by throwing particles at some women platting on the first floor.

The women got angry and their outcry alerted the residents of the building who never liked children from my school because of their naughtiness. Within minutes, the building was agog and they were determined to get us. We perceived that one way to get to us was to shut down the gate, so we all headed that direction before it was late. All of us escaped except our friend Emeka. Even at the age of 10, we knew that if the residents got to one of us, we were all in trouble, so we stayed near to see our fate. While our eyes were glued to the gate to fathom what would happen to Emeka, he showed up right behind us laughing. Surprised, we asked how he escaped from over ten grown men with the gate closed. His answer, in my primary school days was just another story of bravery and covered in mystery, but now I know better.

Emeka told us that when he got to the gate, it was closed and a man was waiting there with “koboko” a Hausa word for whip. He couldn’t pass and so he headed for another direction; running more than his legs could carry by the fence of the building. By then, the men were all behind this little 10-year-old boy and determined to get him. Then Emeka saw his breakthrough and it was a water tank. Those of us in Nigeria know how water tanks for storey buildings were built in those days. The container usually stands on a four-legged, 30 foot crane; depending on the storey building. That was the escape route Emeka saw, and when he got to the foot, he began to climb this ‘miracle’ tank that stood erect by the fence of the building. The men stood under the water tank laughing, thinking that Emeka had been trapped. They expected him to climb down when he gets to the top, or they would climb up to get him if he refused to come to them. But Emeka had another plan. He wanted to climb the tank until he was over the fence and then jump to the next compound and escape. The men never expected a-10-years old boy to have the gut to do that. But he did and wowed them. We called him “the brave one” that day because not one of us considered himself bold enough to do that. Unknown to us, Emeka has something working for him and we don’t and that’s THE ADRENAL GLAND – the part of us designed by God specifically for handling situations that look larger than life.

When God created us, He placed on top of our kidneys, a pair of adrenal glands. They are there to provide for us hormones necessary for the production of energy to do the impossible in very difficult situations, like beat up an attacking lion, jump off a moving vehicle in the face of danger, wrestle a bugler, think up unquestionable solutions in tension etc. One of my friends described how he felt when a mad bulldog broke loose and came after him. In his word, “My hair stood erect and for the first time I prayed that the ground should swallow me alive.” Unfortunately, the ground did not swallow him, but he found himself running faster than Usain Bolt. On a normal day, this friend doesn’t like to run and when he does, he’s slow. Something must have happened that day. We all have similar stories to tell when given the opportunity. Sometimes we say God helped us, and I agree. Oftentimes, it’s the adrenalin given to us by God that worked for us.

What causes the adrenal gland to pump through our body? FEAR! When we are in danger, dread rebuke, rejection, the ‘unknowns’ or spend our whole life in anxiety, we secrete hormones the way we would when we see a bulldog, or when we are in Emeka’s kind of condition. Unfortunately, the adrenalin that is produced during those times will not be used except there is a situation to spend the generated adrenalin. So what happens when the adrenalin surges through your body and there is no big situation to combat, like fighting or running away from a bulldog? WE GET SICK! Adrenalin can only be used to conquer seemingly impossible situations like the story of my childhood friend. If not used, it eventually causes high blood pressure, ulcer, headache or a myriad of other diseases. Do you see why those who allow fear and worry to control their lives visit the doctor more often? I believe that is why God admonished us severally in His word to FEAR NOT! Because the moment you start to worry or fear, you put yourself in the hands of numerous diseases.

When next fear or worry sets in, jump up on your feet and fight back, because at that time, we grow bigger than the problems that we stand against. The power is in you. Samson fought a lion and won; David killed a bear with his bare hands and later embarrassed the proud Goliath who looked insurmountable. Paul killed a poisonous snake with his bare hands and Jacob even fought an angel and prevailed. For us Christians, we have more than adrenalin working for us. We have CHRIST. One popular scripture used all the time is, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” It is time to believe these words and use them for our salvation.

Don’t spend your life worrying over your difficulties. Instead, stand up and fight the problems. We have the power to fight and win. IT’S ALREADY IN YOU.

Monday, August 2, 2010

TO CHASE DOWN A DREAM by Tyler Perry

I am a fan or Tyler Perry and his works especially "Why Did I Get Married Too, Diary Of The Black Mad Woman, Madea Family Reunion." I subscribed to his mailing list and so receive emails from him intermittently. I got this one email last week and wish to share with you guys. Having read about his struggles in the Pursuit of his dreams and then again his successes that is a result of persistence and brilliance, I think everyone who is pursuing a dream should read this piece. You will like it.

- Colyns Agboju

... I've been MIA but we just finished the movie, For Colored Girls, and I have to tell you, I have new respect for Ntozake Shange's 1975 writings. Listening to these words spoken through the voices of Phylicia Rashad, Kerry Washington, Tessa Thompson, Macy Gray, Kimberly Elise, Thandie Newton, Whoopi Goldberg, Janet Jackson and Loretta Devine, made me not only respect the brilliance of the material, but also pull out everything in me to do my best to give it the care and attention to detail that it deserved. Out of all that I've ever done in my life, nothing has taken more out of me than this film. It is remarkable.

Being so drained, I decided to take a few days off. Yesterday I was hiking a mountain in Hawaii with a friend. I was laboring up this beautiful green pastured mountain, looking down at my feet trying to be sure of my footing, while at the same time trying to catch my breath from the altitude. At times, I would make big steps, sometimes all I could do was take small ones. The terrain was uneven and rough at times. It took a lot of effort and a lot of thought so, needless to say, I was getting really tired and at times wanted to stop or just turn back.

I got to one peak and I thought "I'm here, great, we can rest now" only to realize that just because I was at the top of one peak, that didn't mean I had arrived. There were more…more valleys to go through and more heights to reach. It was interesting to me, that in order to go higher, we usually had to go down through a valley, and it went on and on and up and up. I was tired and wanted to sit down but my friend said, "Come on, let's go a little higher." So, not to be outdone by a girl (lol), I dug my hiking boots in and went a little higher. We finally got to one of the highest points and she said to me, "This is the best part, now turn around." I turned around and behind me was the most amazing view that I had seen in my 40 years on this earth. As far as my eyes could see, beauty reigned. The Hawaiian Islands seemed to be leaping up out of the silver blue sea, stretching up to catch the dust of the sky. The clouds seemed close enough to catch in my hand and make a wish; rays of sunlight danced through them trying to find a path to show off their own glow and power. Not even Picasso could have out-painted the canvas that was before me. The heavens were declaring the glory of God. I saw Him in motion.

I said to my friend, "When did we get this high?", and she said, "It was in the climb." I couldn't help but think about life - mine and maybe even yours. I thought about how hard it had been for me chasing down my dream. I thought about how hard it can be to believe sometimes. I thought about the entire struggle, all of the pain, all of the hope, all of the doubt. I thought about the times I was working a dead end job, trying to believe; moving through day-to-day with my head down just taking one step at a time, some small, some big ones, wanting to give up; wanting to stop and sit for a while; wanting to lay in my sorrow; nobody believing in me; nobody thinking it would come to pass and never realizing that every step was taking me closer to higher. That hike was painful, it hurt, but through it all I was getting higher and had no idea how high I was. That's what it's like to chase down a dream.

Sometimes in life dreams are hard to follow, like that climb. You don't know how high you're going or even if you're moving, but every step, even when you can't see what's behind you, will take you closer to your goals. It's in the climb. I know you may be struggling right now, but you're in the climb; things may be hard right now, but you're in the climb; people may not believe in you, but it's part of the climb. They may take shots at you, but stay in the climb; you may have to stand alone, but you're in the climb. Even if you're not where you want to be right now, I want to say to you what she said to me, "This is the best part, now turn around." Look how far you've come. God has not brought you this far to leave you. Stay in the climb.

So thankful for all of you. Be well. CLIMB!

Tyler Perry